Thursday, December 3, 2009

How to get her to say "yes" to a date. by Elana

This is just from personal experience. I always say yes to a guy who's asking me out if he seems like a safe, honest fellow. I don't like smooth-talkers or cutey-cute lines. Those guys come off as decievers. WE LIKE HONESTY. IF YOU'RE NERVOUS, IT'S OK!!! Girls don't mind if a guy is nervous to ask her out; it's actually quite flattering and cute. Even if he's a complete stranger! You can say something like:

"Hi, my name is ____. What's yours? Um, I normally don't do this, and I know you don't know me, and this might seem alittle out-of-the-blue I think you're really pretty, and I was wondering if you'd like to go to a movie/dinner/whatever sometime..."

Then you exchange numbers.

Last time a guy asked me out like that, I was quite charmed at his honesty. He was communicating to me that although he's alittle bit scared to put himself out on the line like that, he found me attractive enough and worth it enough to take the risk! WE GIRLS LOVE THAT! WE LOVE BEING WORTH A RISK!

Think about it! It's sort of a big ego-stroke knowing that a guy thinks you're so cool, he's alittle intimidated by you.

Cmon girls, admit it. You like to be put on a pedistal, right? And isn't it SOOOOO CUTE when a guy's alittle shy of you? How cute is it when he blushes?

Guys. Be honest. There is nothing wrong with feelings; girls LOVE vulnerablility. It makes us put our guard down. Show your true feelings (even the non-glamourous ones), and I'm telling you she'll melt.... I would!!

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