Saturday, December 12, 2009

How to get a girl to fall for you. by Elana

Have you always had bad luck with girls? Here's your chance to get her.

When you're ready, try someone new and different.

Be true to yourself.


Be Smart. Let her get to know you.

A girl likes it when you're open and honest. Be yourself!

Some Girls Hate when you're shy. If you really want to get her attention, speak up!

Hang out with her, but not too much. Hang out, don't stalk.

Keep good hygiene and your chances of success will increase dramatically!

Look into her eyes; do not stare at her chest! That will show her that you respect her.

Talk, don't stare!

Make sure that she is ready for you to ask her out before doing so.

Don't ignore her, be mean, bully her, be gross, or overdo your flirting

These are basic tips. Learn to adapt to the girl and communicate with her to know what kind of guy she wants.

Don't swear, if they don't have a problem with it, then use swearing playfully.

Be the nicest version of yourself, but be yourself.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

How to Avoid making a guy get confused(or vice versa) by Elana

If your interested in going out with a guy keep in mind that us guys can get rather confused rather easily. It makes no difference wheter a guy is a freaking genius or a run of the mill football player, he can still get very confused very easily.

As such you may want to consider making things simple for us.

-First of all, if your interested in us, let us know! We're far less likely to act if we think your not interested in us. If you are, let us know, use glances, head movements, fidgets, if we're interested, we'll often be watching for this stuff. (though we are pretty dumb, we might not always pick up on it.)

-If a guy asks you on a date, you've got a pretty clear choice, yes or no. We'll get to yes in a minute, but if your going to say no theres a few reasons right? First off, your not interested. If thats the case, make it clear. After all, if you don't like a guy, do you really want him to keep asking you out? Cause theres a good chance he will unless he knows you don't like him. (we're dumb, it usually takes us a while to figure this stuff out) If you DO like him, but you can't go for some reason, let him know, give your reason, and ask if you can maybe do it another time? Or, swear that your not trying to get out of a date, you just really have to do (insert important activity here) and continue talking to him, if you turn him down for a date, and continue to have a long conversation, he can be pretty certain that your interested, just unable to make that date.

-If you don't like something we're doing (something we say, something we do, intimate behaviors) just tell us straight out, OR raise the eyebrows at us and frown, we can usually understand that one.

Just remember, us guys are incredibly STUPID at times, we often haven't a clue what were doing, and sending us sutble clues often just adds to our confusion.