Saturday, December 12, 2009

How to get a girl to fall for you. by Elana

Have you always had bad luck with girls? Here's your chance to get her.

When you're ready, try someone new and different.

Be true to yourself.


Be Smart. Let her get to know you.

A girl likes it when you're open and honest. Be yourself!

Some Girls Hate when you're shy. If you really want to get her attention, speak up!

Hang out with her, but not too much. Hang out, don't stalk.

Keep good hygiene and your chances of success will increase dramatically!

Look into her eyes; do not stare at her chest! That will show her that you respect her.

Talk, don't stare!

Make sure that she is ready for you to ask her out before doing so.

Don't ignore her, be mean, bully her, be gross, or overdo your flirting

These are basic tips. Learn to adapt to the girl and communicate with her to know what kind of guy she wants.

Don't swear, if they don't have a problem with it, then use swearing playfully.

Be the nicest version of yourself, but be yourself.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

How to Avoid making a guy get confused(or vice versa) by Elana

If your interested in going out with a guy keep in mind that us guys can get rather confused rather easily. It makes no difference wheter a guy is a freaking genius or a run of the mill football player, he can still get very confused very easily.

As such you may want to consider making things simple for us.

-First of all, if your interested in us, let us know! We're far less likely to act if we think your not interested in us. If you are, let us know, use glances, head movements, fidgets, if we're interested, we'll often be watching for this stuff. (though we are pretty dumb, we might not always pick up on it.)

-If a guy asks you on a date, you've got a pretty clear choice, yes or no. We'll get to yes in a minute, but if your going to say no theres a few reasons right? First off, your not interested. If thats the case, make it clear. After all, if you don't like a guy, do you really want him to keep asking you out? Cause theres a good chance he will unless he knows you don't like him. (we're dumb, it usually takes us a while to figure this stuff out) If you DO like him, but you can't go for some reason, let him know, give your reason, and ask if you can maybe do it another time? Or, swear that your not trying to get out of a date, you just really have to do (insert important activity here) and continue talking to him, if you turn him down for a date, and continue to have a long conversation, he can be pretty certain that your interested, just unable to make that date.

-If you don't like something we're doing (something we say, something we do, intimate behaviors) just tell us straight out, OR raise the eyebrows at us and frown, we can usually understand that one.

Just remember, us guys are incredibly STUPID at times, we often haven't a clue what were doing, and sending us sutble clues often just adds to our confusion.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

How to be a sexy woman?. by jeniffer

I don't know how you think, and if i did I wouldn't be on here.

Now when you want to get a guys attention, at school, at the mall, wherever, sure the less clothes does the trick, but looks dont always do you a favour, no matter how pretty you are.
When your with your boyfriend in public, or with his friends or family, dress appropritaly, normally. Be yourself because thats who you want him to fall inlove with

Now you've got that cute short skirt and top just lying around that you never wear in fear of people thinkin ur just being a s|u† to get your man to like you.

Well when its just going to be you and your boyfriend, its alright to wear those cuter clothes. Wear them becasue you want to and not because he would want you to.

If he really does love you, then what you wear or what you look like doesn't matter to him, but trust me, people may not want to say it, but looks do matter to a certain extent.

How to get her to say "yes" to a date. by Elana

This is just from personal experience. I always say yes to a guy who's asking me out if he seems like a safe, honest fellow. I don't like smooth-talkers or cutey-cute lines. Those guys come off as decievers. WE LIKE HONESTY. IF YOU'RE NERVOUS, IT'S OK!!! Girls don't mind if a guy is nervous to ask her out; it's actually quite flattering and cute. Even if he's a complete stranger! You can say something like:

"Hi, my name is ____. What's yours? Um, I normally don't do this, and I know you don't know me, and this might seem alittle out-of-the-blue I think you're really pretty, and I was wondering if you'd like to go to a movie/dinner/whatever sometime..."

Then you exchange numbers.

Last time a guy asked me out like that, I was quite charmed at his honesty. He was communicating to me that although he's alittle bit scared to put himself out on the line like that, he found me attractive enough and worth it enough to take the risk! WE GIRLS LOVE THAT! WE LOVE BEING WORTH A RISK!

Think about it! It's sort of a big ego-stroke knowing that a guy thinks you're so cool, he's alittle intimidated by you.

Cmon girls, admit it. You like to be put on a pedistal, right? And isn't it SOOOOO CUTE when a guy's alittle shy of you? How cute is it when he blushes?

Guys. Be honest. There is nothing wrong with feelings; girls LOVE vulnerablility. It makes us put our guard down. Show your true feelings (even the non-glamourous ones), and I'm telling you she'll melt.... I would!!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

what girls love

1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly

are you remembering this?

6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when
you're with your friends

keep reading

11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more,
deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her
more than you, deny it. fight back
and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends.
it makes her feel loved

Are you thinking about someone?

16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
19-tell her shes beautiful not ***y!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!

...20 you need to show her you mean it too

21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help

we might deny it but we acutally like
and kinda want you to get us things

26-don't lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the
morning and tell her have a
good day, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever
she needs you, & even when
she doesn't need you, just be there
so she'll know that she can always count on you

are you still reading this you better be its important

31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek;
(it will give her the hint that you want to kiss then).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her
and then she will automatically put her
head on your shoulder, then lean in
and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her

remember this next time you are with her

36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible


41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.

you'll never know when she needs just a lil more love